THE INITIAL STEP OF SELF-DISCOVERY

As we embark on the journey of self-discovery, it is vital to realize that all growth initiates the process of evolution. And true to life, it takes steady effort to see outcomes emerge.

According to psychologists, self-discovery is the corner stone of personal growth.

"Self-discovery is courageous, intentional, and an ongoing process of turning inward to understand one's true values, needs and desires..." I agree! We all know it takes courage to venture into some of these uncomfortable places.

As the book begins, the young girl in, What It's Like to Be Me, goes to the forest and asks a big tree what they see in her. With her dissatisfaction to the tree's response she quickly realizes that the path of self-discovery is going to take a bit of work; how insightful!

The thing is, no matter what road we take in life, it is the road not taken. We never know what hurtles will effect our journey, and what experiences along the way will impact our lives forever.

As we document, journal, and honor the moments that shape us, you may just realize, that your journey of self-discovery has already begun.

Keep writing, keep reading...

See You Soon!

Elizabeth Ann O'Handley

What It's Like To Be You!

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  Illustration by Lucky

This soul searching book, What It's Like To Be Me, starts out as a quest for acceptance, reassurance and an aspect of approval. What happens on this journey is remarkable, and let me tell you, it is a thing of true beauty.

The question we should be asking ourselves more is, "What is it like to be me?" If asked the question, "How do you see yourself, what would you say?" Do you know how others see you; and is that the person you are striving to be?

The reality is, we will never know what others truly understand us to be, because everyone is unique. We may have an idea of how others view us, but remember, we all see the world through our own lens.

Individuals are guilty of crafting our personality, morals and values in their own minds, sometimes without even knowing who they themselves truly are. Sounds unbelievable right.

Ideally, we want to be seen as truthful, respectful, caring and to never intentionally, or to knowingly cause harm. Yet, it is true that sometimes we lose our way, unsure where to turn. But, with the right tools to get grounded, dig deep, and know ourselves, we can face anything.

Remember, you have a purpose, and that purpose is within you!

Let's go on a journey with this young girl and reconnect with ourselves through her experiences.

Regardless of ones age, this book will gently pull you toward who you truly are.

On a funny note, the next time someone tells you, "I know you better than you know yourself," ask them, "Well, what do I think about you?"

Never forget, only you know exactly who you are!!

Bye for now, and thank you to everyone for supporting my work and celebrating in the power of storytelling!

Respect and Truth Always,

Elizabeth Ann O'Handley

ANALYZING OUR REACTIONS! LET'S TALK ABOUT BABY!

If you had the opportunity to read, Magic in the Glorious Green Glades, I predict you may have formed your opinion about Baby's character already.

The name "Baby" has so many meanings. It could be a term of endearment, an unpleasant personality type, or a little human ready to take on the world...the list goes on!

Whatever comes to mind when hearing the word, one thing we all have in common; we were all a 'Baby' once.

The character, Baby, in, Magic in Glorious Green Glades, is a representation of all of us, to a point. We were all naive to life's ridicule, pain, and bullying in one way or another...until we were not!

Baby's character exhibits confusion when trying to understand the negative personality that made her feel so embarrassed. She allowed the word's of Gee to control her emotions, and essentially her life!

As her friends Frankie and Sammie, follow her lead, to never visit the Play Park again, we see the impact an experience can actually have on more than just the targeted individual!

As Lily and the Queen help the group work towards a solution - we watch the characters grow and mature!

Each experience in life, may give us the essential tools to carry on; even if we do not immediately realize it.

Baby's character development is one of admiration, and one I personally hold in high regard!

As we overcome life's challenge's, we may find strength and an unwavering ability to persevere.

Just like Baby, try to stay open to opinions, suggestions and a little help from your friends. We never know when the wisdom from another could just be the answer we have been looking for.

Elizabeth Ann O'Handley